Navigating life’s transitions & initiations with intention.

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Deepen your experience of life with Elizabeth.

Elizabeth works with people in a variety of ways to help them deepen their experience of life by broadening their awareness of Self and Others, and therefore, their potential.

 She offers: grief counseling, psychotherapy, Ketamine Assisted Therapy, IADC therapy, soul guiding/spiritual direction, clinical supervision, communication skills training, and end of life planning and companioning – all through the lens of fostering an initiation perspective.

 What is ‘initiation perspective’?  Francis Weller, in the tradition of Malidoma Some, speaks of grief and encounters with death as Initiation. Many ages ago, humans lived in tight communities of support, led by elders who knew much about creating relational vessels in which persons could, with guardianship, field life’s most challenging experiences without losing their way. Today, however, we live in a Trauma Culture instead of an Initiation Culture.  Absent a community of elders and other wise ones who can help us contain and move through our pain and loss, we are left largely to manage death and big grief in silence and separation. Therefore, these huge life losses and transitions become traumas which accumulate in our psyches and bodies. This can leave us ungrounded and lost, the result of which is isolation and the suspicion that loss could kill us – a conclusion with which The American Heart Association agrees. Grief stress and broken hearts can indeed kill us. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

  •  "What do I bring? In all my different forms of work, I bring an elder perspective – the understanding that the period of big loss you are managing is an opportunity for initiation into the next and higher iteration of your self. I offer a compassionate, yet strong, container in which to connect with the wisdom, guides, and tools already present in your own life and a broader range of tools to assist you in setting your feet, once again, someday in the future, on solid ground."

    Elizabeth Graves

“At the Shadow frequency, emotions are nothing but painful turbulence, but at the Gift level, emotions are guides to soul.”

— Richard Rudd